However, when your country has a shot at winning a gold medal in badminton in the Olympics, you tend to make exceptions.
Lee Chong Wei vs Lin Dan, for the second Olympics in a row
Four years ago, my family and I sat at attention in front of the TV to watch the epic Lin Dan vs Lee Chong Wei showdown. It didn't turn out as epic as we thought it'd be, and we grew increasingly disappointed. From what I remember, Chong Wei seemed to get more and more unnerved by Lin Dan's skills, and kept hitting the shuttlecock into the net. We brought home the silver that year (the gold going to China, of course), and I was left thoroughly unimpressed. That was what everyone had been so excited to watch? Bah.
This round, I made an exception again, and the four of us again sat at attention in front of the same TV (we're the only family I know of that still has that boxy kind and not a flat screen one). And this time, it was different. This time, we were all on the edge of our seats. This time, it was good.
Chong Wei going in for a drop shot.
Yes, we got the silver, but it was still one heck of a match. The first set was 21-15 to us, the second was 21-10 to China. The nail-biter of a rubber set was 21-19 -- so close! Compare this to last Olympics' 21-12, 21-8, and you can see how far Chong Wei's come. He's improved by leaps and bounds, and with Lin Dan not playing as well as he used to, we thought we might actually win the gold. Alas, it was not to be.
That's not to say Lin Dan wasn't good, though -- he was still amazing. Did you see that save in the first set, followed by a jaw-dropping smash? Incredible. Lin Dan's smashes are downright scary; you see him jump, see his face contort, and you know his opponent's screwed. But several times, this wasn't the case! Chong Wei made many admirable saves, astounding us during those sure-die-wan moments. The guy doesn't do smashes, but his defence is pretty freaking awesome.
Chong Wei brought home the silver. In my opinion, this is the vein all headlines should be in, not 'he lost' or 'only silver' or 'fails to bring home Olympic gold' (looking at you, @malaysiakini). Chong Wei brought home the silver medal -- our only medal so far -- and has certainly made a name for us in the international sports scene. There is no shame in losing to a player like Lin Dan, and lose though he did, he put up one heck of a fight. I think I speak for most Malaysians when I say that we are very proud of him.
Despite all this, here's what Chong Wei tweeted minutes after the match:
— Dato' Lee Chong Wei (@Lee_C_Wei) August 5, 2012
I literally wailed when I saw it. Watching him sink dejectedly to his knees while Lin Dan's coaches smothered the latter in hugs had been painful enough. Noticing him swiping tears from his eyes before accepting his silver medal had been worse. This just... This just really took the cake. On the bright side, it wasn't long before the good people of Twitter started yelling at him for apologising, saying that they were proud of him for his achievement and for uniting the nation. I hope he read all that. I really do.
Congratulations, Dato' Lee Chong Wei! Yours is the only medal Malaysia has gotten so far in these Olympics; that's definitely something to be proud of, whatever the colour. You did good, and we're proud of you. There is no need for tears, and even less need for any sort of apology, so don't! Thankyou for all the blood, sweat, and tears; for putting Malaysia on the map; and for your remarkable humility. We are all very proud of you.
You may have gotten the silver, but you are gold in my eyes.